ENDING WITH GANGS

At these moments, our society is suffering from a plague of growing proportions, that is becoming harder and more difficult to combat.  Of course we are not referring to any physical-biological plague but to GANG groups, which its sole intention is synonymous with trouble and destruction!

Gangs are groups of wrongly raised youngsters, that have no respect not even for their own families, let alone to, peers or society.  To justify their bad behavior and actions, these youngsters, usually use pre-established excuses like: “they’re not understood, don’t have established homes, have a bad family relationship, nobody loves them, etc.”  Their objective is to join these violent groups of gangs, and blame it on somebody else!  That is not fair!

Unfortunately, those without-foundation excuses had been backed up and supported by some bad professionals so called “Psychologists and Lawyers," together with several Communication Media, and Groups of people of weak thinking, that don’t want to face the reality of the damage they are causing because of their blindness. 

This direct or indirect support, makes these youngsters feel like their actions are not their fault, but society or somebody else’s…  We must say with a strong voice, that this is not the way it is! The truth is that, NO ONE IS AT FAULT FOR THE BEHAVIOR OF OTHERS.  We all are what we want to be!  And to this end, there is no turning of the page!  Why is that we blame others each time we commit some fault or mistake?  Why don’t we have the integrity, to accept and remedy whatever we do wrong?

If we care about youth and humanity, we should take more seriously and responsible this problem of gangs.  We must understand that, GANGS are the seed ground where drug-addicts thieves and criminals are born.  And obviously, those dangerous devil actions are going to lead them directly to any of the following three places:

  1. Hospital

  2. Jail

  3. The grave

Aren’t youngsters aware of the dangers and consequences of getting into gangs?  Can't they see how others have ended in a sad manner, like being abandoned by their families, converted to “human waste” thrown out on the street, crazy, sick, and dead?  It is not enough to realize the wrong of this path?  Is it necessary to put your hands into fire to know that it burns?

In addition, the wrong paths they take, not only endanger themselves but also, directly affect and denigrate the life of their family members and peers.  Indirectly, society in general has to pay and suffer the consequences because of their blemish.  And, how about the inheritance they are going to leave to their own children? 

Why not understand that, no one has the right to disrupt the life, liberty and peace of others!  Can these youngsters realize the pain they cause to their family members?  Can they replace and heal the tears of the most sublime being on earth…Mother?  Can they re-pay all the hurt and damage they’ve made to society?  Of course not!  What a disgrace!

The worst part in this scenery is that, before this unfortunate situation of gangs on the rise, we usually respond with ignorant irony and irresponsible despair, saying that everything is ok!  Why?  Don’t we care about our children’s future?  We cannot conceive a world where nobody cares about anybody, where nobody can have a peaceful life, and where children have no future!

We think it's time where we should all start focusing in this problem of gangs, to seriously and decidedly attack it, so it can gradually be reduced, until it completely disappears.  Especially, we as parents consciously and responsibly, must start implementing more discipline and care in the raising of our children.  

Youngsters, if you want to feel “cool,” don’t do what a looser does…that is, going into gangs or drugs, you better show your family and other people, that you are capable to use your life for really cool and great things. 

We’ve always been  complaining about the bad inheritance left by our ancestors, but what kind of inheritance are we leaving to our generation?  And this new generation, what inheritance will leave to theirs, and so on?  It appears like a never-ending cycle…each generation waiting for the next to change…  Why wait for others to change?  Why don’t we start changing now for the better?

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